Dreams… the only thing that is yours in your life and no one can take away from you are your dreams. You can never stop dreaming no matter what the circumstances are. However there are just a few of us who are brave enough to fulfill their dreams – and how do they do that?
Quitting is easy but to reach to your dreams, you often have to work hard.
Most dreams don’t come true in a day or two, if you are inspired by people who are successful and rich, they almost certainly have worked hard for years to reach the place where they are now.
However, this is not how it works: it takes a lot of effort and passion to make your dreams come true.
Passion is the key component for achieving the goals you want to opt for, if you lack passion then you might give up or get bored.
Backing off is not even a choice if your dream is your life, so try and stand up after every fall because the ride to the success is always bumpy but usually fun.
And if you won’t take that ride then your one and only life (reincarnation isn’t exactly a proven concept, sorry) would become dull. So here are some tips why you should not give up on your lovely dreams, that are only yours and nobody has a right to them;
Don’t Compromise on your Dreams
People expect you to help them and there is nothing wrong with that. We have friends and family and we love them to bits. We are ready to give up everything for our loved ones, our parents might want us to move to another city or choose us a different career path.
But it is not necessary that you should give up on your goals to make others happy.
There is a chance that you are afraid of following that dream however it is better to do what you love than stay unhappy.
Don’t Go Big (or do if you’re comfortable with that)
Like I said, it takes years of hard work to achieve what you actually wanted.
Do not be disappointed in the beginning if you fail because failure is a part of success.
If you won’t allow failure on the path towards success then you will probably never learn. And never think about quitting because once you quit then (by definition) you can’t reach your goal.
All great things come with a price – don’t be disappointed and give up if it takes time to grow because success is a whole process.
We have a lot of examples in this world of successful people who had to give up one dream to focus on their major dream,
Bill Gates dropped out of Harvard to continue working on Windows because that became his main motivation.
Similarly, Mark Zuckerberg dropped out, people dream of studying at Harvard but these gentlemen had higher dreams and they achieved it because they had determination and passion.
What Is Your Goal?
Before everything else, ask yourself what do you want?’
If you know your what your goal is then you will never back off.
Generally, you will think about the positive things that you will achieve at the end of the road, and that’s good.
Focusing on a target is great but don’t forget about the negative things that can come in-between your target and where you’re standing right now.
Knowing your target is very important when you are trying to achieve your dream.
If you have a clear picture then your path is much easier, and you would know what you have to do. You will never be lumpy and fall down.
Be more Realistic
You might want to know if you are confident and passionate enough about achieving your dreams.
If that’s the case for you, keep in your mind that very few people will support you (lots of them are secretly or openly averse to success).
Since there will be hurdles along the way and you will likely be needing a lot of help from your family and friends they might back off and criticize you for choosing a path that is less traveled.
Don’t feel bad about yourself and question your choice it means that you have made the right decision, and keep walking.
It’s not too late to achieve what you had dreamed as a young girl or a boy.
If you think it is worth living your life for then go ahead and act on it.
Don’t make the mistake of giving up on your dreams because this is the only life we have.
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